Journalling

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“Working with the morning pages, we begin to sort through the differences between our real feelings, which are often secret, and our official feelings, those on the record for public display.”

– Julia Cameron

Journalling is great for problem-solving and decision-making. I find it particularly helpful if I’m stressed about something or if I’ve got lots of thoughts chasing around my head. There’s something quite cathartic about journalling. I think of it as a tool similar to Dumbledore’s pensieve. Putting my thoughts down on paper gets them out of my head. It creates room in there and gives it a chance to breathe. It’s almost a kind of meditation. Julia Cameron, author of The Artist’s Way, created the practice of “morning pages” or journalling first thing in the morning before meditating. This practice helps to clear our heads so that it’s easier to meditate.

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Do You Need a Man to Be Happy?

Happy single woman
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“Is the route to Happiness Sam, to get a man?” asked my friend Mike, in our group WhatsApp chat. “Do you think? In your experience?”

Hmmm. Good question.

When I recovered from the audacity, absurdity, and arrogance of the question, I could see that it was indeed a good question. The short answer is no, of course the route to Happiness is not to get a man! In reality, it’s not as simple as that. Many women, although they may not admit it, do they think they will be happy when they’ve found a man. (Boy are they in for a shock!) For many years, I was one of those women!

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The Power of Silence

The Power of Silence
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“Infinite silence is the mind of God…Practise silence and you will acquire silent knowledge.”

– Deepak Chopra

I have found spending time in silence and solitude is a key component in learning to be Happy and overcoming loneliness. When I was single, I felt lonely a lot. I thought the answer was to increase my social life and make new friends. Although this helped, it only alleviated the problem temporarily. I had to learn to be comfortable in my own skin. I discovered that loneliness was less to do with being disconnected from others and more to do with me being disconnected from myself.

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